To be honest,if it was me.It would make no difference if it was male or female.If my partner was cheating on me with 'ANYBODY'. He would be out on his ear.I know we are talking Alma here,not me,but just when you said straight women would rather have their partner fool around with a man then a woman.l personally would not be accepting of either.
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This is perfectly understandable, certainly. I probably feel the same way, although I know I do get more worked up if the other person was another guy.
Yes,i see your point.I guess it would feel worse to some people to have your partner playing away from home with someone the same sex as yourself.For me it would be the same either way.But that's just me. :)My heart rules my head.
Jennis.x
Jennis, no on two accounts. No we are not talking about Alma. I just used her as an example in my question. I was talking about real life.
And two, it is not just you who feels this way.
While watching that part of the movie I tried to put myself in her position. There is no way in hell I would commit myself to one person for the rest of my life and allow that person to sleep around with anybody of any gender. That is pure BS. How on earth can someone say to you "I love you" but you don't satisfy my needs so I am going to sleep with someone else? Not to mention the risk of disease. If I were Alma I'm afraid I could not have been laying there enjoying the sex.
Just how liberal are we going to get!!??
So, at least you and I agree Jennis.
Yeah absolutely(i was talking about Alma.I know your thread is about real people)I would on no account put up with it.But i do know many women that have and still do.I have often asked them why and they just don't seem to have the strength to get out of a demeaning relationship.Couldn't stand it myself,no matter how much i might love someone.
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